Day 63 – Tiny Martini – Just a Quote
“Again, you can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something –...
View ArticleDay 67 – Stale Martini – Moving on
This past week has been a week of introspection for me – in a very good way. D and I have been talking about a future together. It is exciting and scary all at the same time. Of course there are...
View ArticleDay 94 – Bittersweet Martini – Playing House
This week has been akin to taking a starving Ethiopian, bringing them to a buffet to feast all they want, and then dragging them reluctantly back to their life devoid of food. D and I have spent most...
View ArticleDay 116 – Expectation Martini – I don’t ever want to let you down
This is my new favorite play over and over song by Imagine Dragons. It’s a good sing-along-badly to song while I’m drinking my tea on my morning commute. It wakes me up. It’s catchy. The line I like...
View ArticleDay 128 – Messy Martini – Life is a Beautiful Mess
One of my sister-in-laws just posted on facebook that ‘life is a beautiful mess’. How very true that is. Writing isn’t coming easily to me the last few days. I have a lot of things turning over in my...
View ArticleDay 141 – Swirly Martini – Winds of Change
Finally, our power returned tonight. I was so excited while driving down our street as I noticed neighbor after neighbor with lights on. Finally, I pulled into the driveway to see our lights on. That...
View ArticleDay 164 – Holiday Martini – Christmas in the Car
On my way to meet D for dinner tonight at our favorite little pub, I was the recipient of a random act of kindness. Someone at the toll booth in front of me paid my toll. How cool that I did...
View ArticleDay 174 – Savory Martini – Backdrop
Initially coming back to NJ, coming back to the chaos, the messy life that is my reality, I wanted to tuck tail and head back to CA. Of course, none of this is to imply that I want to run away from my...
View ArticleDay 175 – Frosty Martini – The Road Not Taken
D is moving 2 hours away, as opposed to previously where he lived 45 minutes away. Even at 45 minutes away, it was a stretch to see each other regularly. As I’ve said before, I want to move out of my...
View ArticleDay 186 – Tough Martini – Fight Back Day
There has been a lot of turmoil in my silly, little life recently, and I have been feeling rather yucky (that is a technical term). It is not a feeling I savor. I went to bed early last night in an...
View ArticleDay 189 – Runny Martini – My journey with running
This past weekend I ran a 5k. It has been a long time since I’ve actually raced in a 5k. J and I have run a bunch of them together at his pace, which is fun, but I was curious to see if I still had...
View ArticleDay 194 – Missing Martini – Hiatus
Ok, so I took a little writing hiatus. Sometimes that happens – I have to put it on the back burner – writer’s block. Actually, I have been writing more poetry lately, but that I don’t generally...
View ArticleDay 200 – Heavy Martini- Loads
“It’s not the load that breaks you down, it’s the way you carry it.” ― Lou Holtz Oh, I like this quote today. Today was one of those days! Sometimes I get caught up in examining my situation too...
View ArticleDay 221- Greetings Martini – It’s been a while!
Well hello there strangers. I haven’t been here in a while. Last week was a bit of a whirlwind, but in a good way. I was on vacation, so J and I spent the week at the NJ shore with D and his...
View ArticleDay 227 – Grounded Martini – Change
Change is good, but change is hard. I never thought at 44 years old I would be starting my life over again. Life is a series of stops and starts, of course, but I think we reach a certain point in...
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